I’m strangely confident that the worst is finally, hopefully, behind us.
Chad Ferro wears a tank by Scooter LaForge. Make-up by Shain Kish. Photograph by Walt Cessna NYC 12
I’m a trans man, and in the past I have stuck to bisexual partners. They seemed less likely to have issues with my genitals.
A little while ago, I met a nice gay guy on a dating site and we really got along. When I disclosed that I was trans he was quite surprised, but didn’t seem to take it in a…
I remember the first time i saw that haiku, i was just starting to feel comfortable with my sexuality. I loved and tried to relate to the haiku, but i still couldn’t get past the persistent fear that i would wake up one day and realize “oh shit, i’m not gay after all” (which i know is completely…
I was an undergraduate when José Muñoz was just beginning to make a name for himself. His book DISIDENTIFICATIONS: QUEERS OF COLOR AND THE PERFORMANCE OF POLITICS was all the rage in my circle and off they went, my Queer friends, to put Muñoz’s theory into practice. I never could…
this. read this.
Three people drinking three bottles of wine… and Oliver’s sexual identity crisis is over!
I’ve been trying to figure out since last October if I am gay or bisexual. My friend musingly announced last night that I had internalized the idea that men need to be attracted to women, and that I am really just gay.
DUH, OLIVER. DUH.
I wish I had figured this out sooner! I feel like I make more sense to myself now. I don’t have to force myself to be attracted to women! Yes!
(However, this doesn’t mean I stop identifying as queer!)